Shyness
When strangers visit, if you are afraid to be seen by him, or can not speak to him, it means you are very shy. Shy usually because of lack of confidence in yourself. Shyness is not a bad thing, but when you really want to do or say something but can not do it because of shyness, shyness is not good.
Fear
Fear is also called fear. Fear will shake you so that your hands and feet can not move, so that your heart rate faster. Fear of the difference. Everyone has time to be scared. Regardless of adults, children, boys, girls, have had the feeling of fear. Even animals are no exception.
Jealousy
Jealousy is a sad one. When I think someone else has taken possession of something or I do not have it, I feel sad and hate him. This is jealous. For example, we are often jealous of parents or teachers hurting others without hurting me. But in fact, they all love us very much, but we do not know it.
Lying
Lying is what makes people believe unreal. It may be fun to lie just for fun. But if you're bluffing or lying for something else, lying can be nasty and can hurt others.
Imagination
Our body is active: eyes can see, mouth can talk, feet can walk. We also have a powerful spiritual tool - imagination. Through the imagination of the guide, we can experience exciting adventure, visit the magical kingdom for all kinds of dreams.
Behaviour
Good behavior means being polite and observing group rules. We do not naturally have good behavior, but learn from those around us.
Good behavior can get people's love and trust. When others become angry with us because of our actions, we need to review and improve before others can accept us.
Intelligence
When you encounter difficulties, if you know what to do and why you do it, you are a smart person. Not all smart people are good people, some bad people are very clever. However, knowing how to be a good person must be a smart person.
Friendship
You are my good friend, I am also your good friend. I care about you, know you, trust you, help you. You care about me equally, know me, trust me, help me. You are me, I am you. This beautiful relationship is called friendship.
Four major characteristics
1. Spiritual Guru: Every child has a side that prizes parents, as well as problems with parenting. The Parent-Teacher Guidance Handbook of "Children's Inner World" can help parents and teachers solve their children's confusion, providing parents and teachers with guidance to their children. It is a rare spiritual teacher for children and their parents.
2. Versatile Versions: Each book is divided into simplified, Chinese and English versions, allowing children to learn different versions of different age groups and increase their ability to learn bilingual.
3. Audiobooks: Bilingual CDs in Chinese and English, vivid and lively stories, so that children can easily read, listen freely and learn happily.
害羞
當陌生人來訪時,如果你很怕被他看見,或者不敢和他講話,這就表示你很害羞。害羞通常是因為對自己的信心不夠。害羞也不是壞事,只是如果當你真的想做或說什麼事,卻因為害羞而做不到時,害羞就不好了。
恐懼
恐懼又叫作害怕。害怕會使你發抖,使你手腳動彈不得,使你心跳加快。害怕有程度的區別。每個人都有害怕的時候。不論大人、小孩、男生、女生,都有過害怕的感覺。連動物也不例外。
嫉妒
嫉妒是傷心的一種。當我以為別人佔了我的東西,或者別人有的我卻沒有時,我會很難過,因此很討厭他,這就是嫉妒。例如,我們常嫉妒爸媽或老師只疼別人而不疼我。但事實上,他們都很愛我們,只是我們自己不知道罷了。
說謊
說謊就是使別人相信不真實的事情。如果只是為了開玩笑而說謊,也許會很好玩。可是如果是為了唬人,或者為了得到別人的東西而說謊,說謊就會成為令人討厭的行為,而且還會傷害到別人。
想像
我們的身體是活動的:眼睛可以看,嘴巴可以說話,雙腳可以走路。我們還有一種有力的心靈工具──想像力。藉著想像力的引導,我們可以經歷刺激的冒險,拜訪神奇的國度,作各種美夢。
行為
好的行為是指待人有禮貌,遵守團體的規則。我們不是天生就會有好的行為,而是向周圍的人學習而來的。
好的行為可以獲得別人的喜愛與信任。當別人因為我們的行為而生氣時,我們要檢討改進,別人才會接受我們。
聰明
在遇到困難時,你若知道該怎麼做,也知道為什麼要這麼做,你就是個聰明的人。聰明人並不一定都是好人,有些壞人也非常聰明。但是,懂得如何做個好人的人,必然是個聰明人。
友誼
你是我的好朋友,我也是你的好朋友。我關心你,了解你,信任你,幫助你。你也同樣關心我,了解我,信任我,幫助我。你就是我,我就是你。這種美好的關係就叫作友誼。
四大特色
1.心靈導師:每個孩子都有令父母親引以為傲的一面,也有讓父母親煩惱的問題。「孩子的內心世界」的家長與教師指導手冊,可以幫助父母、老師解決孩子的困惑,提供父母、老師輔導孩子的方法,是孩子及家長不可多得的心靈導師。
2.版本多樣:每本書都分成-簡易版、中文版及英文版,讓孩子依不同的年齡層晉升學習不同的版本,增加孩子雙語學習的能力。
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五大訴求
1.故事引導、易於學習:每個主題都以故事的方式引導,深入淺出的方法讓孩子容易閱讀,讓父母了解孩子的行為原因並和孩子共同成長。
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4.情緒管理、心靈成長:情緒的管理是一項必須長時間慢慢培養的技能。透過故事情節的討論,孩子可以從故事主角處理負面情緒的方式,轉化運用在自己的生活中,成熟的面對自己和他人的衝突。
5.親子連結、關係建立:年幼的孩子常常不知道如何表達內心的不安全感,即便有疑惑也無從問起;然而在故事討論中,父母可以更清楚知道孩子的想法,孩子也可以透過父母的解答,建立與父母之間的信任和親密關係。
想像和說謊如何區別呢?
很多媽媽會說:我問孩子,你今天在學校做什麼??
孩子回答說:我今天去城堡玩、我今天去野餐……
孩子的答案總是天方夜譚,這是他的想像還是說謊,很多媽媽都摸不著腦,接不下話,不知該責罵還是該鼓勵。
讓我們聽聽專家的建議及分析,了解孩子的心裡在想什麼,對於這些語言背後的動機是什麼,才能明白孩子說話的真正涵義,想要表達的意境,並幫助孩子改善不良的說謊行為。